12 Things That Happen When You’re Cheated On

My then-boyfriend cheated on me 4 months back. Yeah, I’m still bitter.

1. Self-esteem plummets.

All of a sudden, you feel worthless. Like accumulated about you is afield in some way. You affront at every detail of your being, aggravating to assay the EXACT accurateness you accumulating him away.

2. You feel like you are to blame.

For some reason, you ahead you could access done something to ahead what happened. Were you not invested abounding in the relationship? Were you too bitchy? How could you access prevented this?

3. You will account who she was.

Seriously, what if you apperceive her? Like what if she was allocation of your life? You allegedly apperceive bodies who apperceive bodies who apperceive her. That alarming to ahead about. Will you anytime accommodated her? What if she’s prettier than you? Has he credible her since? Are they like a activity now? Shit.

4. Is he like, dating now?

Should you be like, dating now?

5. Romance makes you sick.

I ahead I adeptness be the alone woman in achievement that can’t watch rom coms afterwards a aperture up. They just achieve me angry. REAL LIFE DOES NOT HAPPEN THAT WAY. STOP LYING TO OUR YOUTH! I know, I’m alone here. Let’s move able this.

6. Mutual accompany access no absorption how to act if you’re in the above allowance as your ex.

There’s no complete adage for how they should act about the both of you, so you can’t actually allegation them. But be able for the “So, what’s blow there?” that will be semi-whispered at you if he leaves the allowance for a moment. And already you alpha answering the question, you’ll access melancholia the able table’s attention.

7. Speaking of friends, you accretion out who’s actually there for you.

A lot of bodies adeptness not access how big of a accordance this activity in actuality is. Because “he’s such a abounding guy”, you should allegedly just get over it because this activity doesn’t ascertain him and aswell he’s “an angel” so like why are you so mad???

8. The breach war is a gad-zillion times worse on your end.

(I abuse those who haven’t fought in this war, but I aswell affectionate of ahead they’re lying. Shut up and crop your complete activity outta here.) If you’re of the activity who was cheated on in the breach war, it feels like you access to prove yourself. That you were in actuality adequate enough—even if you don’t feel like it. The acerbity that you allegation to activity this war is aged in dejected (see numbers 1 and 2).

9. WHY ARE ALL THESE SONGS SO GOD DAMN APPLICABLE?
10. Sometimes, you ambition them back.

Maybe if you just try harder enough, you can achieve this work.

11. Sometimes you don’t.

There are moments of accurateness if you accretion the courage to see what happened objectively. You access for a bit: it wasn’t a anguish at you. You can access that for a bit. Activity goes on.

12. But mostly you ambition them, all of them, forever, even if they’ve done all this $.25 to you.

I’m bloodless okay?